Sometimes it’s because they think that dating an older guy is somehow “wrong” or “weird”. They see this older, experienced guy who has his life together and they wonder “why would a guy like that want to date someone like me?” In either case the way to overcome this resistance is to hold firm in your belief that the age difference between the two of you is no big deal.Invite her to the same places you’d take any other girl.
Even if she thinks it’s awkward at first – or if her friends try and tell her the age gap is too much – hold strong to the belief that it’s perfectly okay.
This makes it possible for her to follow your lead and adopt that same view.
Because of this you don’t need to say or do anything special in order to have success dating younger women.
Don’t, for example, try to look or act “young”, thinking you have to blend in with her age group in order to win her over.
This emotional maturity is huge in attracting women (particularly for women looking for long-term relationships.) If you’re interested, in dating younger women, remember these points (and remember that no matter how old you are, you’re probably farther along in all these areas than the guys her age).
Realize that you already have a lot of the qualities younger women are attracted to simply by the fact that you’re a little older.
Wearing different clothes or taking her to places you don’t like (because that’s where “people her age go”) just puts you in a position where you’ll look and feel both uncomfortable and out-of-place.
Instead of trying to meet her at her level, bring her up to your level.
Playfully tease her for being “so young and naive” and laugh at the fact that there’s an age difference.
If you can get her to laugh about it and see the age difference as a big joke then she’ll feel more comfortable with it.
Younger women tend to have a stronger desire towards new experiences.