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As a Black writer who writes about issues of race and culture, I can’t help but feel a certain sense of hypocrisy when it comes to my dating habits.

As a dark-skinned Black man, I have faced both overt and subtle instances of racism from white gay men.

He questioned why Black men in particular want so desperately to be acknowledged as desirable by white men who have no interest in dating outside their race.

It’s easier to hate the black men who fall for the white man propaganda that white women are more beautiful and superior to Black women than to hate white men who are responsible for the negative side effects of hundreds of years of constant degradation of black women.

A smart Black woman would hate the both of them instead of only hating those black men while loving white men who are responsible for their suffering.

Unfortunately life will only get better for black women when they move to a society that respect and value them.

I’m quickly approaching my 25th birthday and have come to the realization that I’ve never been in a long-term relationship. That's not uncommon among millennials, but as a Black gay man, I've begun to wonder how my race has affected my chances of finding love.

If Black women can be taught to hate themselves and practice colorism.

Why would it be impossible for black men to be taught to hate black women as well?

A friend of mine, who is Latino, once asked why I didn't approach Black men in bars.

I replied, "Look around — I'm one of three Black guys here." There’s a clear lack of queer spaces in POC communities, and that definitely affects the ability of men of color to meet one another.

Many queer folks were closeted, and of the few who were out, most of them were white.

After graduating, I moved to New York, and though here I was able to find queer friends who are also people of color, we are still always in the minority at gay bars and clubs.

A larger conversation about the racist, fat-phobic, and misogynist language of gay dating apps has also begun, which has allowed me to see that my dating prospects may also be a result of problematic societal messaging.

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