It feels overbearing and like you’ve got nothing better to do.
I’m not saying to pretend like you’re cool and aloof.
That said, a lot of guys go the opposite of intense messaging and instead distance themselves completely.
I know you might feel lost when reinitiating with a girl who went quiet.
Your natural inclination may be to double check if she received your message or repeat the same topic.
If this is just the first time she’s stopped responding, there’s no point in playing the waiting game and potentially missing your window of opportunity.
Hit her up within a few days and follow the ideas below for your message.
He’s going to be productive, hang out with friends, do something fun for himself, and talk to other women.
He’s sitting at home agonizing over the response time of a girl he barely knows.
This is especially true if your previous unanswered text was about trying to setup plans.
She may have not been comfortable enough or excited enough yet to commit to a date.
If she didn’t see the message and you ping her again, it feels like you’re desperate for a response.
If she did see the message and is waiting or choosing not to respond, your follow-up often reinforces that she reply.
When I first started dating, nothing was more exciting than the rush of flirting with a new girl over text. I also remember that nothing was more nerve-racking than waiting for a reply. And when she never replied at all — realizing that our connection was potentially dead in the water.