She also knows that you wouldn’t want to throw out your grandchild or mess up your credit over the loan you co-signed. She may not even consciously know that is what she is doing but that is what it boils down to.If you don’t want to kick them out, I would at least make sure you don’t give her any more money at all.
I’m not saying that your daughter is an awful person. She is simply irresponsible but she won’t become responsible until someone does something to make her take responsibility.
Unfortunately, it sounds like you and your husband will have to be the ones to do it. There is no getting around it so you’ll have to choose now what you are going to do.
Grandbabies do complicate things and you will have to use your own judgement when reflecting on the things I will suggest. Often, the only thing that will motivate someone when adult children won’t leave home is for them to be to make it on their own.
Until they have the rug pulled out from under them, they will not change. They know you will bail them out so, if it’s a little difficult to do something else, why should they bother to help themselves?
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