Try to not be too blunt and descriptive with your texts. Let them get thinking dirty thoughts for themselves. You will surely notice the sparks a dirty chat adds to your bedroom live.
So go ahead girls be bold, ask for what you want from your guy, and spell it out, literally!
One of the most basic but glaring dirty texting mistakes is the fact that girls end up dictating their own fantasies leaving their guy out of the overall experience.
If you are able to create a dirty and clear image of your actions in the minds of your lover, you are a successful ‘dirty texter’!
What you are looking to achieve is being able to make your guy feel that he has had the dirty experience with you even if he is far away.
So whether you’re communicating with text on your phone or private chatting online, there really is no better place to learn how to talk dirty without the fear of embarrassment from either side.
As you’re not face-to-face with your lover, there is plenty of room to get their imagination running wild.
I cannot have been the only child of the Clinton era to have stumbled on the porn site doing social-studies homework.
I remember furtively clicking on thumbnail after thumbnail in an “Interns of the Month” gallery, watching spray-tanned haunches and balloon-taut breasts of girls posed around Oval Office interiors materialize, bit by it.
All you need to do is use your imagination and push a few buttons on your cell phone.
The idea with sending dirty texts is to make use of your vivid imagination.
You can also be as descriptive as possible to make your guy’s head spin and beg you to say more and more.
Guys love dirty talk and your man will love the fact that you have started it!
The idea here is to establish a conversation where you are able to sense your guy’s anticipation and interest.