You’ve probably gone through a hundred reasons why he hasn’t responded, but still want to hear it straight from him.
“The most desperate or clingy texts are when she asks why you haven't responded. Imagine if you got a text with multiple question marks. Just because he doesn’t respond doesn’t mean the world is going to end.
So when you say things like “I guess” or “Sure” you might not give off the right vibe. When she says, ‘I guess,’ I usually take it to mean she’s not really into me,” says Ryan*, a Florida State University senior. Then be forward and just send “Yes” or “Yeah,” whichever is more your style.
Guys are simple creatures, especially when it comes to texting.
He’ll be thrilled you want to hang out with him and as soon as he sees your “yes” text, he knows he’s on your good side.
If you would rather not see him again, just say “No thanks.” In order to lighten the blow, you can say something like, “Sorry, but right now is really not a good time.
I’ve had some girls who are too annoying,” says Jordan*, a Macomb Community College senior, “and if you don’t answer them they blow you up with 3-4 texts in a row without me answering and it’s weird.” Texting is a back-and-forth form of communication.
If you sent the last text, wait until he responds before sending another.
Listen to our texting advice and start being a smarter texter.
Extra letters are annoying and unnecessary; guys don’t like it when you’re constantly saying “hiii,” “What’s uppp?
If you’re afraid “hey” will make him feel like he does when he receives any other one-word response, put together a short and sweet line that expresses what you want to say like “Want to get drinks?