Anyone can ask anyone out, no one knows who is supposed to pay, or if a date is really a date or just a hook up.Women who initiate contact are left wondering why they have a hard time attracting and dating masculine men.This guest blog from relationship expert Janet Ong Zimmerman contains some real words of wisdom.
Dating Advice #8: Cut ties early on If you’re looking for a long-term commitment and the guy you like says he isn’t looking for anything serious, believe him.
If you keep seeing him hoping that he’ll change his mind, you’ll waste precious time and regret that you didn’t believe him.
When you let a man woo you, you learn if he is looking for a fling or is interested in getting to know all of who you are for a long-term relationship.
Setting the pace and standards will bring forth the man who is right for you.
Dating Advice #2: Control your dating destiny Getting dismal results tends to occur when you let your dating life happen to you.
Instead of letting dating control you, do what’s within your control.
The path your friend has taken may be more direct while your path may have more forks in the road. It’s my experience that the path with the forks in the road gives you a richer, more dimensional experience.
Replace the temptation to compare yourself to others by believing that everything is happening for your greater good.
Following modern dating rules will make you feel discouraged and confused.
If you’re sick and tired of getting dismal results in your love life, stop following old dating advice that lacks substance and modern dating rules that are confusing.
This can also cloud your vision from seeing red flags because you’re fixated on being in a relationship.